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Emma shares about the transformation she experienced through my 3-month Sacred Reunion Mentorship, "When I started working with Aubert I was in a cycle of overwhelm, burnout, fragmented energy, drained, exhausted, having been through a divorce in a the last few years and looking after two small children, I decided to work with Aubert because for one, he represents healthy masculine… What’s changed in my life is connection to self, connection to Source, God, the Universe, connection to my children, connection and relationships within the wider community, friendships, ex-husband, they’re all much easier, much more loving, much more fulfilling than they were. And really it’s this sense of flow and ease through life now. I have a better connection and relationship with my work and with my business, I have a clear direction and good and strong energy behind that now… The biggest breakthrough has been the unraveling of my feminine, feeling safe in the masculine to open up deeper and deeper into my feminine, into my creativity, into my flow, and all other aspects of the feminine really…"

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Michael M., shares about the transformation he experienced through the 3-month Stronghold Mentorship,

"Before working with Aubert, my marriage had started to feel like a prison. I felt trapped. After our second my wife flipped, she started becoming controlling and ungrateful. She talked down at me, was always correcting me, and I resented her for it. She became like my mother and I admit I just shut down. I stopped trying because nothing I did was ever enough. I escaped into my work which I enjoy, so I would often work longer hours and dread coming home. I also numbed myself with porn, went to the occasional massage parlor for happy endings, and sometimes even fantasized about walking away from it all. Don't get me wrong, I loved my family, but I started looking for a way to escape.

I chose to work with Aubert because I saw one of his posts that hit me in the gut, I couldn’t keep living the way I was. I really didn’t want to abandon my family, I wanted to be the man they deserved and I wanted to feel respected and fully alive again. I knew it wasn't only her, I had to man up and do something to change things.

What made the difference was the mix of solo sessions and joint sessions with my wife. Alone, Aubert helped me face my patterns and the ways I had checked out. With my wife in the room, he helped us break cycles we couldn’t even see. It was uncomfortable for us both, sometimes painful leaving us feeling worse then before we started... but they were also the turning point.

After many months of work everything is different. I’ve stopped hiding behind work, porn, and going to massage parlors for release. I’ve learned how to be present with my own emotions and also hers. My wife feels it... she’s softer, she trusts me more, and our sex life is better than ever. Even our kids feel the difference. Our home no longer feels like a quiet prison; it feels like a home.

The best part about working with Aubert is that he doesn’t just give advice, he sees right through the walls, the little boy within me as he calls him, and challenged me to step up.

My biggest breakthrough was realizing that my wife’s control wasn’t really about me, it was about her not feeling safe because of her own childhood. Once I stopped taking it personally, as a rejection of me, and started showing up with strength and consistency, the whole thing changed.

If you’re a man who feels stuck, hiding in your work, running from your family, or secretly dreaming of walking away, do something about it. Man up and do what you have to do to save your marriage and lead your family! Divorces are really the worst and I'm grateful to Aubert that it didn't have to go there.

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Sandra T., shares about the transformation she experienced through the 3-month Sacred Reunion Mentorship,

"Before working with Aubert, I was quietly unraveling. On the surface, everything looked ideal and all my boxes were checked. Marriage, a beautiful new baby girl and playmate for our 3-year-old son, a custom home, and a successful career I had worked hard to build. But internally, I was exhausted, short-tempered, and starting to wonder whether our marriage would even survive.

I felt like I was carrying everything: the finances, the household, our children, and all the emotional weight in the relationship. I resented my husband for not stepping up, even though I couldn’t quite articulate what that would have looked like at the time.

I’ve always earned more than him. For years, I told myself that didn’t matter. But if I’m honest, it did. Somewhere along the way, I started seeing him as inadequate. Less than... It sounds awful but he began to feel like another thing I had to manage. From there, the respect began to erode, the attraction faded, and the intimacy between us flatlined.

To avoid my criticism, he started spending more time at work, golfing with the boys, and checking out on his phone. I was beginning to shut down emotionally, and it got to the point where I wasn’t sure how, or if, we could come back from it.

A friend of mine had worked with Aubert and shared how profoundly it changed her marriage, even though her husband never joined a single session. That got my attention and I started following him. I appreciated his faith and his insights resonated deeply. When I finally applied and had our call, I appreciated how grounded and direct he was. It surprised me but I cried for the first time in months during our call. The decision to invest was a stretch, but I knew something had to change, and I’m so glad I said yes.

One of the most surprising and impactful parts of this work was how much it brought forward elements of my past that I hadn’t connected to my current life. I had a “good” childhood with supportive parents, plenty of opportunity, but I internalized early on that love was earned through excellence. By being composed, by being capable, and never being a burden.

That pattern followed me into adulthood. Into my career, and eventually into my marriage. I tried to control everything, not out of dominance, but out of fear. Fear of what might fall apart if I let go, and until Aubert reflected it back to me, I couldn’t see how deeply that pattern was running the show.

Through our work, I was able to soften. I stopped mothering my husband and started trusting him again, which, in turn, allowed me to trust myself in a deeper way. What surprised me most was how quickly he began to change. Not because I told him to, but because I finally created the space for him to lead, contribute, and step up as the husband I always longed for.

The most powerful aspect of working with Aubert is his ability to pierce through the story and get to the core. He holds space with clarity and compassion, not in a therapy-esque, drawn-out way, but in a way that invites you back to your own integrity, your truth, and your innate feminine intelligence.

My biggest breakthrough was realizing that the control I thought was keeping us together was actually what was keeping us disconnected. What I had called strength was often a shield against the terror I carried deep within me. And true intimacy, the kind I had longed for, only became possible when I felt safe enough to surrender the role I’d been stuck in.

If you’re a woman who’s used to being the strong one, the one who knows what's best in every instance, the competent one, the glue holding everything and everyone together while quietly wondering if this is all there is then please hear me: you don’t have to keep living this way. You don’t have to fix him, and you’re not failing because you’re tired and at your wits end.

He’s probably just as worn down by the dynamic as you are. And I promise, there’s another way. One that brings you back to yourself, and back to the kind of marriage you always hoped was possible.

I’m living proof of that."

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Matt M., shares about the transformation he experienced through the 3-month Sacred Reunion Mentorship, "Before working with Aubert, I was experiencing a disconnect in my relationship with myself and with my partner. I felt fragmented, frustrated and like my efforts were continually falling short of making an impact to strengthen our bond and provide clarity on what personal direction I was heading in.

I decided to enroll in coaching with Aubert because I was seeking guidance on how to deepen the connection within my relationship with my partner and because I felt like I was being pulled in many different directions individually. I needed help re-centering on what is most important and being able to articulate that in a way that improved both my self clarity and re-confirmed my focus and commitment within my intimate relationship with my fiancé.

Many things have blossomed and evolved for me through the work I have embarked on with Aubert. Most importantly, the quality of my presence with my family and loved ones feels more vibrant and impactful. My ability to communicate the landscape of my inner world with my partner has grown and this has helped us to develop a stronger foundation of shared intentional connection. This newly refined skill has already had a tangible impact on the depth of the love we share with each other and has opened up many beautiful opportunities for deep connection and meaningful conversations that ultimately bring us closer and into unison.

The BEST part about working with Aubert is his ability to deeply understand what I am experiencing and reflecting that back in a way that makes me feel seen, validated and called forward to create positive change. Aubert is a deep listener with an incredible skill of dissecting specific instances and drawing out the underlying emotions and conditionings that are behind the actual event itself.

My BIGGEST breakthrough was the enhanced perspective I was able to build that helps to shape my new life. I feel more grounded in my body, more open in my heart and more patient in my mind. The balance that is offered to me from this new perspective has re-coded my internal operating system and leads me toward feeling more empowered, more loving and more connected to myself, my family and my purpose.

To anyone considering working with Aubert, I would ask, “What do you truly value and how deep are you willing to commit yourself to enhancing your ability to show up in moments of your life that matter most? If you want to be able to offer your best to yourself, your family, your loved ones and your life’s purpose, I invite you to recommitting yourself to a process of transformation that will illuminate what thoughts, feelings and conditionings your life is currently built upon so that you can make the conscious choice of what would best serve you and what you can move through and let go of. Working with Aubert will be an experience that changes you for the best. Aubert’s guidance on how to dive deep into your subconscious and resurface with only the jewels while letting go of the heavy weights we often unknowingly drag behind us will leave you feeling lighter, more whole and more clear, just as it has for me.”

My deepest gratitude and appreciation goes out to Aubert for how thoughtful, patient and supportive he has been for me throughout this process together. It wasn’t easy work for me and I can imagine it wasn’t easy work for him to help guide me so effectively. I can viscerally feel the genuine care that Aubert holds for me and I know that would be true for each and every other person who chooses to welcome Aubert into their life and fully commit to the transformational work that he leads. Aubert is an authentic and compassionate leader. His dedication to continually offering his utmost presence and true wisdom throughout this entire journey is something I will always be honored to have received. Aubert has helped me in more ways than I can explain and the seeds that were planted from the work we’ve done together will continue to blossom in my life and therefore the life of my children. I am forever grateful for that."