Unlock Your Highest Potential
Coaching for High Performers, Creatives, Professionals, and Souls who KNOW that they are here to experience the depths of Love, Power, and Purpose.
You are here for something greater.
This is where radical self-mastery, deep transformation, and embodied leadership begin.
If you are ready to transcend limitations and forge your highest path, you are in the right place.
Aubert Bastiat
CLIENT SPOTLIGHT
Emma shares about the transformation she experienced through my 3-month Sacred Reunion Mentorship, "When I started working with Aubert I was in a cycle of overwhelm, burnout, fragmented energy, drained, exhausted, having been through a divorce in a the last few years and looking after two small children, I decided to work with Aubert because for one, he represents healthy masculine… What’s changed in my life is connection to self, connection to Source, God, the Universe, connection to my children, connection and relationships within the wider community, friendships, ex-husband, they’re all much easier, much more loving, much more fulfilling than they were. And really it’s this sense of flow and ease through life now. I have a better connection and relationship with my work and with my business, I have a clear direction and good and strong energy behind that now… The biggest breakthrough has been the unraveling of my feminine, feeling safe in the masculine to open up deeper and deeper into my feminine, into my creativity, into my flow, and all other aspects of the feminine really…"
CLIENT SPOTLIGHT
Matt shares about the transformation he experienced through my 3-month Sacred Reunion Mentorship, "Before working with Aubert, I was experiencing a disconnect in my relationship with myself and with my partner. I felt fragmented, frustrated and like my efforts were continually falling short of making an impact to strengthen our bond and provide clarity on what personal direction I was heading in.
I decided to enroll in coaching with Aubert because I was seeking guidance on how to deepen the connection within my relationship with my partner and because I felt like I was being pulled in many different directions individually. I needed help re-centering on what is most important and being able to articulate that in a way that improved both my self clarity and re-confirmed my focus and commitment within my intimate relationship with my fiancé.
Many things have blossomed and evolved for me through the work I have embarked on with Aubert. Most importantly, the quality of my presence with my family and loved ones feels more vibrant and impactful. My ability to communicate the landscape of my inner world with my partner has grown and this has helped us to develop a stronger foundation of shared intentional connection. This newly refined skill has already had a tangible impact on the depth of the love we share with each other and has opened up many beautiful opportunities for deep connection and meaningful conversations that ultimately bring us closer and into unison.
The BEST part about working with Aubert is his ability to deeply understand what I am experiencing and reflecting that back in a way that makes me feel seen, validated and called forward to create positive change. Aubert is a deep listener with an incredible skill of dissecting specific instances and drawing out the underlying emotions and conditionings that are behind the actual event itself.
My BIGGEST breakthrough was the enhanced perspective I was able to build that helps to shape my new life. I feel more grounded in my body, more open in my heart and more patient in my mind. The balance that is offered to me from this new perspective has re-coded my internal operating system and leads me toward feeling more empowered, more loving and more connected to myself, my family and my purpose.
To anyone considering working with Aubert, I would ask, “What do you truly value and how deep are you willing to commit yourself to enhancing your ability to show up in moments of your life that matter most? If you want to be able to offer your best to yourself, your family, your loved ones and your life’s purpose, I invite you to recommitting yourself to a process of transformation that will illuminate what thoughts, feelings and conditionings your life is currently built upon so that you can make the conscious choice of what would best serve you and what you can move through and let go of. Working with Aubert will be an experience that changes you for the best. Aubert’s guidance on how to dive deep into your subconscious and resurface with only the jewels while letting go of the heavy weights we often unknowingly drag behind us will leave you feeling lighter, more whole and more clear, just as it has for me.”
My deepest gratitude and appreciation goes out to Aubert for how thoughtful, patient and supportive he has been for me throughout this process together. It wasn’t easy work for me and I can imagine it wasn’t easy work for him to help guide me so effectively. I can viscerally feel the genuine care that Aubert holds for me and I know that would be true for each and every other person who chooses to welcome Aubert into their life and fully commit to the transformational work that he leads. Aubert is an authentic and compassionate leader. His dedication to continually offering his utmost presence and true wisdom throughout this entire journey is something I will always be honored to have received. Aubert has helped me in more ways than I can explain and the seeds that were planted from the work we’ve done together will continue to blossom in my life and therefore the life of my children. I am forever grateful for that."Â
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about me
I’m Aubert, father, husband, entrepreneur, transformational coach, somatic facilitator, writer, speaker, and visionary of Sacred Sons, a men's community which has helped catalyze a resurgence of men's work, masculine rites of passage, and spotlight the importance of our psycho-spiritual wellbeing as men.
For nearly a decade I've guided leaders, artists, healers, entrepreneurs, high performers, and sacred union partners through profound personal transformation. My work bridges ancient wisdom with modern science, distilling timeless principles into practical mastery.Â
As a founder, mentor, and facilitator, I’ve worked with high caliber souls from a myriad of fields - from health and wellness, art and music, to military and tech. My journey is one of radical self-responsibility, spiritual evolution, and embodied leadership.
SACRED
REUNION
BRINGING THE MASCULINE & FEMININE INTO UNITY, WITHIN AND WITHOUT
I’m here to hold you with fierce compassion as you clear away the tired, painful, and unfulfilling beliefs about love, relationship, and purpose. Lay to rest the masks that allow you to hide from the world, clarify your "why?", cultivate stronger boundaries, become authentically you in your relationships, and ultimately, open your heart to be loved for who you are.
You have everything within you to live the life your heart knows is possible - I’m here to help you take the steps to begin living it.
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1 PRIVATE 1:1 MENTORSHIP
Work through internal blocks and limiting beliefs that prevent you from embodying optimal physical, emotional, mental, relational, and spiritual wellness. In our work together you will deepen your understanding of self, what you need and why, and overcome cross-generational cycles of trauma to heal, grow, and evolve beyond your fears and limitations so that you can live your life as your full, authentic self.
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2 SACRED REUNION - GROUP EXPERIENCE
In this group experience, you’ll be invited to explore your beliefs about relationship, identify narratives guiding your choice of partner, work to heal your inner child, and learn to cultivate a sacred space in and around you where love can flow freely. You can expect to come into greater intimacy and connection with your partner, or attract aligned, relationships rooted in love and authenticity. Next cohort launching summer 2025.
TESTIMONIALS
“Aubert was skillful in helping me work through childhood trauma and other traumatic experiences. I trust him and appreciated how consistent he was during our work together.”
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“Before I started to work with Aubert, I was struggling with self sabotaging patterns. Although I was getting along fine for the most part, I finally decided to reach out for some help. Since we started working together I was able to process my childhood wounds. I reclaimed younger parts of myself and feel more whole as a result. The best part of working together was his responsiveness, I felt that I was really listened to and understood. One of my biggest breakthroughs was letting go of a self-destructive pattern that I was feeding into for years of my life and for this I am very grateful. If you feel called to work with Aubert I can definitely recommend it. Just know that you have to do your part. He gives amazing guidance, but it's important that you show up and do what it takes to heal.”
"Before working with Aubert I was feeling very disconnected from myself. I knew I had to be the change I sought, but I also needed support. After following Aubert on IG for sometime, and feeling inspired by his perspective on God, trauma-healing, and his personal journey I reached out regarding coaching. We worked together for three months and it was truly an awakening experience for me. Before, I was so scared of judgement and needed everyone around me to change so that I could feel safe to be me. Since working with Aubert I have a greater appreciation for my sensitivities, for who I am; and more bravery to continue walking the path God gave me to walk. I’m learning to accept people for who they are, and where they’re at whilst focusing on my own energy and authenticity. Aubert’s insight and reflections are crystal clear, and I always felt safe sharing what was on my heart. His emotional attunement is sharp. He offered me tangible and effective exercises for deepening my healing. In this vulnerable space, I felt nothing short of sincere care and compassion as I navigated some painful wounds. My big breakthrough occurred when I acknowledged a deep mother-wound. I knew that my childhood was painful, yet was unconscious of how deep the influence of my mother-wound was. I’m still in awe of what I discovered about myself and beyond grateful that I get to embark on this next chapter of my life with more self-love and awareness. If you’re ready to shed old skin and to step into a more authentic life, then work with Aubert! I can’t thank him enough!"
“Aubert helped me to find and respect my boundaries, and express them in a respectful way to others and my partner. Through working with him I was able to feel the power and truth of that and accept it as a necessary step to love and respect my being. He was reflecting a divine masculine presence who is supportive, respectful, encouraging and taking responsibility of their own growth. At the same time he helped me to separate love from dependency, and so guided me to develop first deep and secure love and respect for my own being. I could feel that he has wisdom and light to share to this world. A week after stopping working with Aubert I got a major realization of consciousness where my mind got silent and I realized that I am always responsible of the thoughts and emotions that appear in me and that at the same time those things are never what I really am. I wondered how this will change what will be going on internally, and it does. I can feel some kind of deeper peace, whilst being in this moment now."Â
“I started working with Aubert when I began to recognize I needed help. I needed support, wisdom and guidance. Aubert showed up for me with that, and so much more! Providing me with a safe space to move through grief and rebuild trust and confidence within myself. Making the choice to work with him honestly changed the direction of my life for the better. He truly has a gift from God to help facilitate healing and growth in others. I will forever be grateful for him!”
“Before working with Aubert I was stuck in a negative cycle with toxic habits that I just couldn't break. A friend recommended Aubert because she was also working with him and had great success so I decided to start 1:1 coaching with him. From our first session, I felt such relief and hope! The shift in energy allowed me to have a clear mind and think straight to find out what was really going on with me. I was able to set goals and actually focus on achieving them. I would recommend working with Aubert to anyone and everyone. The best part for me was being able to have his coaching available from my own home without going anywhere and the flexibility. His knowledge and amazing energy is also a bonus! A life-changing breakthrough I had was breaking through addiction and remaining sober. I’m so grateful for Aubert and all the help and hope he has given me!”
“I thank Aubert so much for creating a safe space for me to heal! There are some people in life who are truly angels and he is one of them. He helped me mend my relationship with God, my inner child and got me to fall back in love with myself. Through our work together I’ve realized how important Self love truly is, and now I’m feeling inspired to share more of my story. Life hasn’t always been kind to me no matter how pretty it looks from the outside. I’ve learned to love and embrace it! I’ve been on an incredible journey of healing over the last 2 years and Aubert has been a significant source of support and guidance. Aubert held space for me to begin the process of really devoting myself to change. In the end through our work together I embraced that no one’s in control of my life but me. What helped a ton was having Aubert be a consistent source of compassionate accountability, it’s major! The outcome of all of my hard work has been so rewarding and I’m grateful for Aubert’s role in helping me become the powerful woman I am today.”
“Aubert called me forward to love myself deeper and I realized there were behaviors that I was still holding onto that weren’t serving me (or my future family). Through our work together, we dove deep into my relationship with alcohol, self-sabotaging, past traumas, family, masking, and living out of balance in my masculine energy. Since our time together, I have softened in my feminine essence, let go of control that I didn’t need to hold, stopped overindulging in things that weren’t serving me, and allowed myself to be seen and feel at peace with my past. Mostly, I’m ready to be a mother more than ever and my marriage is healthy and happy! My biggest breakthrough is a newfound level of clarity that I hadn’t experienced before."Â
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